Morality
“Hasan” is called “goodness and beauty,” and “Akhlaq” is plural of “Khalq,” which means “attitude, behavior, habit.” It is called good manners. Imam al-Ghazali (رحمة الله عليه), says:
If the state of the self is such that it leads to good actions that are rationally and Shariah-wise desirable, then it is called good morals. It is defined as immorality if it causes terrible actions that are rationally and Shariah-wise undesirable.
The meaning of good morals is very broad; it includes many good deeds, some of which are: accepting forgiveness, commanding good, forbidding evil, forbidding the ignorant, and showing mercy to the one who is cut off. Giving to the deprived, forgiving the oppressor, meeting with a smile, not hurting anyone, gentleness, tolerance, self-control at the time of anger, drinking away anger, forgiveness, and forgiveness. To meet people with a smile, smiling for a Muslim brother, to wish Muslims well, to make peace among people, to pay for the rights of enslaved people, to help the oppressed, to stop the oppressor from his oppression, to pray for forgiveness, to worry about someone. He is giving away, supporting the weak, training the abandoned children, showing compassion to the little ones, respecting the elders, respecting the scholars, feeding the Muslims, clothing the Muslims, paying the rights of the neighbors, bearing the hardships, avoiding haram, obtaining halal, spending liberally on family members. Etc. Etc
Hazrat Sayyiduna Abu Darda (رضي الله عنه) narrates it, that the Tajdar of Madinah (ﷺ) sadi: “On the Day of Judgment, nothing will weigh more than good morals in the scale of a believer.”
People hate a bad-mannered person; they run away from him, he has to face failures in worldly affairs, and he is troubled and disturbs people; a bad-mannered person also has many enemies and bad people. Because of morals, one can reach the lower class of hell; a wrong person gets into worldly trouble, and an evil person is like a broken pitcher who cannot be used.
When respect for Muslims arises in the heart of a servant, then he will automatically treat them with good manners. One of the ways to create respect for Muslims is to know all people well and consider themselves great sinners. He should adopt humility and humility; thus, the care of Muslims will be born, and the wealth of good morals will be blessed.
The saying of the Lord is: You treat each other with kindness and ethics; never forget this moral lesson; remember it everywhere and at all times. According to the hadith of the Prophet, the perfect believer among believers is the one who has good morals, and the best is the one who is the best with his family.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Shall I not tell you about the person who is the most beloved to me and will be the closest to me on the Day of Judgment? When the Companions remained silent, the Prophet (ﷺ) repeated the same thing three times.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم “أكمل المؤمنين إيمانا أحسنهم خُلقا، وخياركم خياركم لنسائهم” ((رواه الترمذي وقال : حديث حسن صحيح)).
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives”. [At-Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith Hasan Sahih]. (Riyad as-Salihin)
Good manners are the sign of the most perfect believer: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), said: “The perfect among the believers in terms of faith are those whose morals are good.” love There is no such thing as goodness in a man who neither loves people nor people are familiar with him.
